Companion post to
Confessions of a Safety-Holic — Now in Remission
As I look back on my life, I recognize that these are some clues my body was using to tell me — It’s time to make a major life change! It’s time to stop playing it safe and take that leap of faith! Run with uncertainty!
Do you recognize these clues? Is your body trying to tell you something too?
#1 You leave work feeling completely drained.
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- What I mean by completely drained is that you feel like your body is devoid of all energy. You almost feel like you’re having an out-of-body experience. It feels like your “essence” has been sucked out of you. And I felt this way leaving a job I liked! But it wasn’t the job I needed. Working for this Organization definitely makes me tired because creating is very energy intensive, but it’s a good tired, not a drained tired.
#2 You are tired ALL the time.
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- Even on your days off, you are just plain tired. Your body just wants to remain at rest, even if your mind doesn’t. You find yourself being “lazy” and “wasting” too much time, which just perpetuates the energy-drain cycle.
#3 You look in the mirror and don’t recognize yourself – you look so old!
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- One day it just hits you; holy crap, I look old! When did that happen?!?! My face looks so drawn; the dark circles under my eyes are so pronounced; my eyes have lost their sparkle. Um…energy drain…duh! It has a very real effect on our physical appearance.
#4 You don’t enjoy the things you used to.
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- The things I had a hard time enjoying were listening to music, reading, and going to the beach. My mind was so cluttered that I couldn’t let anything new in, and I couldn’t shut my brain off long enough to enjoy the peace of the beach.
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#10 You start questioning “gut” decisions you have made.
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- You get yourself so turned around in your head that you don’t trust yourself anymore. And you are desperately trying to find the cause of this unrest you feel. In my case, I started questioning my marriage. My whole relationship with my husband was definitely a “gut” decision. Maybe I had been wrong; maybe I’m not cut out for marriage; or for living with three extra people. Maybe I just need to be on my own. (After many long talks with my husband and with my inner voice, I now know those thoughts were complete nonsense.)
Do you recognize any of these clues? Which ones? Any you would add to the list? Let us know in the comments!
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I have all these. It is crazy. Trying to make an effort but it has been a slow process. Slowly but surely.